What Is Personal Development?

How would you define personal development? This concept can be kind of a buzzword, but in this episode, I want to share the definition we’ll be using for Be School going forward.

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Be School has always been a personal development podcast, but it took me a while to really own that truth. Once I finally started introducing myself as the host of a personal development podcast and the founder of a self-care company, I realized that I wasn’t entirely sure what personal development meant to me.

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I created my own definition of self-care for Inner Workout. That definition changed my life and guides everything the organization builds.

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What is personal development?

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Personal development is just as much of a buzzword as self-care. I needed a guiding definition of personal development for Be School so that we didn’t get lost in all the buzziness. Ultimately, the simplest definition rang truest. 

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Personal development is the process of becoming yourself.

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Earlier iterations talked about personal development as becoming the best version of yourself or the highest version of yourself, but that didn’t sit right with me. You are not a machine to be optimized. You are a multidimensional human being.

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Your richness and capacity for impact are already there. You simply need to uncover it.

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If personal development is the process of becoming yourself...

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How do you become yourself? 

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I think that you become yourself through intentional inner work. That work broadly falls into three categories:

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Unlearning

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In this work, you’re letting go of the person that you think you ought to be. It can involve stepping into your own shadows to see where these beliefs began.

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Learning

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Here’s where you continually get to know yourself through tools like personality assessments, personal mission, vision, and values, metrics for success, and observation.

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Growth

Growth highlights the space between who you are and how you’re currently showing up. It asks, “What needs to shift so that I can step into who I really am?”

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